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I Dated Someone 12 Years Younger and Everyone Lost Their MindsI'm 36. She was 24. The reaction from my friends, my family, and total strangers on the internet taught me more about dating than any book ever did.Continue reading → -
I Got Unmatched 47 Times in One Week and It Taught Me EverythingI started tracking why women were unmatching me. The patterns were embarrassing. They were also the easiest fix of my dating life.Continue reading → -
I Used to Throw Up Before First Dates. Here's What Fixed It.I'm not exaggerating. I used to actually throw up. Then I figured out the trick was that I had the whole confidence thing backwards.Continue reading → -
She Told Me Why She Didn't Want a Second Date. I'm Glad She Did.Most women just ghost. This one didn't. She wrote me a 4-paragraph text that changed how I do first dates forever.Continue reading → -
I Got in the Best Shape of My Life and My Dating Life Got WorseDown 22 pounds. Visible abs. Bigger shoulders. And somehow fewer matches. Here's what I figured out about why.Continue reading → -
I Got 40 Matches in a Week After Deleting These 5 Things From My ProfileI had 4 matches in three months. I thought I was just unmatchable. Then a friend looked at my profile and started laughing.Continue reading → -
I Spent $400 on Professional Dating Photos and It Made Things WorseI hired a photographer who specializes in dating app photos. I looked great. The matches got worse, not better. Here's why.Continue reading → -
I Spent Two Years Wearing the Wrong Cologne. Here's What I Wear Now.A woman I went on three dates with eventually told me my cologne was "a lot." I asked her to be more specific. She was. Here's what I learned.Continue reading → -
I Stopped Trying to Impress Women With Money and Suddenly Things Got BetterI used to take dates to expensive restaurants to signal value. The dates were terrible. Then I went the other way and the dates got incredible.Continue reading → -
I Read 6 Months of My Own Texts to Women. I Wanted to Throw My Phone in the Ocean.I was getting ghosted constantly and didn't understand why. Then I scrolled back through my own messages with fresh eyes. Oh.Continue reading → -
I Almost Sent $1,800 to a Woman I'd Never Met. Here's How They Get You.I'm an intelligent person. I had a finger on the Venmo button. The only reason I didn't send the money was a friend texting me about an unrelated thing.Continue reading → -
She Said "I'm Not Ready for Anything Serious" and I Wasted 4 Months AnywayEvery red flag was right there in the first three messages. I read past every single one of them because I thought I could change her mind. I could not.Continue reading → -
Everyone Told Me to Lower My Standards. I Did the Opposite.I was 33 and single. Everyone in my life had a theory about why. They were all wrong in the same way.Continue reading → -
I Spent $4,000 on Clothes That Made Me Look Worse. Here's What I Wear Now.I went on a style spree thinking nicer clothes would change my dating life. The clothes were nice. They were also wrong for me. Here's what I figured out.Continue reading →